Guess what ya'll,, I got a jizob a jizob a jizob a jizob!! Yessssssssssssssss bitches!! I'm gettin young money over here lmao I'm sooo happy and grateful and excited all in one you have no clue how much broke I was. And the coolest thing about it,, it is resume worthy a for its my first media job since I graduated last year, since then I just been interning. But thank God that my interning paved the way for me to get this job I have now because I was actually referred for this position and my boss is the someone who actually requested me to work for her because of the wonderful work ethic I showed at my internship. For legal purposes I'm not going to say the company,, just incase they want to Google me lolz,, but just know that I work in the Marketing and Media department as a Media Marking Associate!! So,, in relation to having a job I will prolly be slacking on blogging again but I'm going to try not to. I have some more bloggin ideas on topics I would like to give my 50 cent to. Hope all is well with you guys!!!
6.7.10
10.6.10
Changes To Come
My blog definitely needs a makeover,, Im tired of looking at it like this I want to polish it up a lil. I have been wanting to do this for a while but I have been too lazy. It takes a lot of patience to do this taking the template I have right now was all made from scratch. I want it to be revamped and more modern. If anyone would like to make me a cute banner leave a comment or email me at qu33nkam@gmail.com. Oh and I was thinking of changing my domain name, I don't want a blogspot anymore,, however Im unsure if I do that will you all still be able to find me easily?? Give me info on that. If you guys have some sugggestions of topics of anything you would like me to speak on let me know as well or if you have or want advice from me. Greatly appreciate you all for reading and the readers i have had from day one who still read and comment I heart you more than you know. Also, I will do my best to reach out to all of you and if you would like me to check out your blog let me know and if you are new to this blog please follow and comment.Thanks. Tootles
What is Slim Thug Talking About??
So I waited a few days to really make sure I could give a non-bias or should I say a non-black bitch comment about his proclaimed judgment on the black woman and why we are all doomed to hell. He might as well should have said we were Satan's children and we need to be redeemed and forgiven by Jesus. Sheesh!! Is that really how black men feel about us? When did black women not become shit?? One thing I don't like is people that make ridiculous judgments and interpretations of what a whole race is based on a few people. Isn't that called being prejudice?? Do I have to call Slim Thugga a racist lol? His comment if you didn't get to read it, put down not only black women but white women. For him to say Black women need to lower our standards because successful Black men don't exist shows more about black men than black women any day. Why are successful black men going extinct and why is that okay? I think the better implication is that they are the ones that need to get it together. I feel that the definition of success is very blurred in the black community anyway. For Slim Thug to think he is successful by being a dope boy is just pathetic, cuz he damn sure not making money as a rapper. We need to stop thinking that getting money is the only ounce of success and independence, being successful comes from the way you spend that money and how you get it and its not only a lifestyle but a state of mind. Just because someone isn't able to buy out the bar doesn't mean they aren't successful,, y'all need to stop letting entertainment equal y'all success and go get an education and get a more realistic career,,and stop giving excuses to why you can't do shit else, but rap,, sell drugs,, and play sports. Success comes with ambition and working hard in a positive way and if we do not have enough black men in our community that has that then they are the ones that need to pull it together.Instead of black women lowering our standards maybe y'all need to raise yours. The fact that there are more black women in college than black men shows that,, the fact that they populate the majority of the jail systems shows that. I'm not going to go too deep into this situation because I can go on and on,, but I will say that I do not believe all black men believe in what Slim Thug is saying and if y'all do that's just fucking sad and you have no respect for women in general. Black women do hold y'all down for the fact that we still all fuck with y'all like that. I'm proud to say that there is no other race of woman that has held the black man down stronger than the black woman; we are there for y'all through thick thin and all that,, we have helped y'all become the men you are today. Any real woman of any race demands success and the ability to provide for the family and be a protector from any man she seeks to be with,, if women have to search miles high and low to find a black man that equals that is not a great representation of the black man at all. Also, any white woman or woman other than black that allows a man to refer to them the way Slim Thug does is pathetic as well. Remember these perfect 'submissive' women were once the same women y'all got lynched for even looking at or the first women today to go running saying she was raped. I do think there are some rotten apples that spoils it for the rest,, but those are personal problems to why your woman won't do for you or is irresponsible,, that is not a racial problem. If yall go around flossing shit and showing your worth is only made by what you have.. all you will attract is that gold diggin' girl than trust me that's what you deserve to have. I really don't like when people date for superficial reasons,, it says a lot about you more than the race your putting down or the race you are promoting; if you meet someone and date them it should be because they compliment you in the most positive ways not because of a damn stereotype.
7.6.10
Thanking You Now!!
Okkk,, So I am one of those people out there who took advantage of the leak of Drake's Thank Me Later,, [you probably have it as well] and with that being said I was trying to hold out on hearing until I ripped open the plastic packaging,, however,, because of all the hype and wonderful reviews I couldn't help myself to obtain it. Once I found out that my best friend it downloaded,, I had to hear its greatness. And yes I AM IMPRESSED!! I loveeeeeeee this album I play it everyday all day. There isn't one song I skip nor dislike. He definitely gave me all I needed and more and I'm glad he stayed with his style and story telling that us true Drizzy fans fell in love with. It is very reminiscent of So Far Gone and that was definitely an upgraded flavor compared to Room For Improvement and Comeback Season,, which I still love as well. Thank Me Later to me is a sequel to So Far Gone. I'm still going to buy Thank Me Later as intended but I'm so Happy I didn't wait till later,, I'm also glad Drake isn't upset about the leak.
29.5.10
Alicia Augello- Cook Keys Beats
It's really been hard for me to want to not like Alicia Keys,, I'm saying she is beautiful and talented and for a cool minute seemed really down to earth,, but because of Swizz Beats she is being too basic bitch for me. I never spoke on this adulterated situation before because when I found out about it the first time, it was almost old news and I didn't have all the details until some time after. I didn't want to believe that America's Sweetheart was a home-wrecking tramp after declaring how strongly she is for women empowerment,, but there is no way shape or form you can sing about being a Superwoman being someones sideline ho for two years while the wife was pregnant with his baby taking that you knew he was married with children and after his wife politely asked you to leave her man alone so they can work on their marriage. After all of Alicia's tea had been spilled onto the counter and the floor,, I assumed she would do the righteous thing by leaving Swizz alone and revamp her life and get back on the horse because I truly am aware people make mistakes people aren't perfect and love and lust make you do crazy things,, however with her now being in the position she is in,, engaged and impregnated to a lying cheating married man she has accepted the fact that this love affair of a mistake is something she would like to prolong with for the rest of her life.
Now,, I have NEVER since I heard about this ordeal have or will be accepting or happy for either Alicia Keys or Swizz Beats for the obvious reasons that Im so indeed shocked everyone is so accepting of. I see people on the blogs congratulating their union like its President Obama and Michelle rekindling their vows. UH UH People,, this is not by far cute,, this situation is a fucking train wreck and a poor example of love and relationships. No matter what Alicia wants to say,, she is a role model and needs to understand that when she became a singer and most importantly a philanthropist. You can not tell me about Karma coming back around and you are sitting here playing in traffic with someone else's man. Everyone wants to turn the other cheek to this situation because they feel Alicia is so beautiful and successful and that Swizz made the better choice,, just by this happening the way it did I do not think we really knew about our beloved A. Keys the way we thought. This shit is wrong there is no justification for it,, IM SORRY!! Any woman that deals with a married man is foul as fuck and any man out there thinking Alicia is bomb.com you can see right there how insecure this woman really is. Any woman sleeping or emotionally dealing with a married man *I say married because I hold HIGH expectations for marriage way differently than I do for single people but Ill get into my definition of marriage in another post* has low self esteem because she is desperate and craving a for attention to fill an absent whole in her life. Also,, with her doing this Swizz should be turned off she would even go through with it. Attention men,, if a woman allows you to cheat on your wife with her how can you ever think she will be 100% loyal and respectful to you when she has no morals or standards for herself. And women any man that allows himself to cheat on his wife and leave her for you,, how can you trust the fact he wont do the same to you.
In closing,, I can give two donkey shits about Swizz Beats,, my expectations and liking for him was never set high. However, I was a fan of Alicia Keys *even though for a while all her songs sounded like No One for the longest and I couldn't get down although I do like Unthinkable,, probably because it was arranged by Drake but it is a nice song* I looked at Alicia for being so attractive and talented as form of real natural beauty,, almost every man I dated loathed her as their dream girl and if she came knocking down their door in a thong alone I will be,, now Im seeing her current actions granting that as a possibility. Im really disappointed in her and Swizz Beats for carrying on like this. No matter what Swizz and Mashonda were going through there is no hurtful feeling like you man giving his love away to someone else,, I feel for her and hope she is recovering well. Im not even certain their divorce is final. But to each his own,, I hope Alicia and Swizz know that there is no positivity can come once a relationship is built on lies and deceit and they need to go home and watch a Tyler Perry play and bring their shattering life back to formation.
17.5.10
13.5.10
Vegas Baby!!
Two weeks ago I went to Las Vegas with my friends for the Mayweather and Suga Shane fight and we got to stay in the MGM. There were indeed crazy unexpected moments that I wish never happened but there also was fun vibrant moments that I enjoyed. No matter what the trip really magnified some specific things regarding friendships and the phrase 'shit happens'. But,, it surely let us know that we party hard,, we have fun,, and we enjoy each other company even when we get on each other nerves. We by far do not live boring lives, but for now here are some flicks (and the craziest of them all are not even here)....
She got her nipple caught in the zipper,, OMG that was so hilarious
She kept hopping in and out of the car,, i did a couple of times too
I don't even remember taking this pik,, kinda why its so unflattering geez lolz
Our Road Warrior he came with the rental car
We got a flat!! Vegas didn't want us to leave!!
Good Parts: We were all drunk most of the time
We laughed and shared crazy jokes
We all looked cute
Partied
Ate really well
Walked the strip
Gambled a lil
Bad: Because I don't want to get sued,, I'm going to leave these events in Vegas and amongst the parties involved
No matter what I would still take these crazy girls on any trip with me,, maybe not all at once tho lolz
Find Your Love
So I finally got a chance to peep out Drake's new video and song,, "Find Your Love",, and let me the one to say *standing ovation* that this video is by far the best he has done so far. I loved everything about it,, this video brought me back to why i loved videos in the first place. They are supposed to be creative visual translations of the song and I love videos that tell stories and he did just that!! Im so proud of him!! He gave me all that I wanted and needed with this video. Now the song is growing on me,, something about the beat is throwing me off,, is it me or does Kanye West never really does right by Drake. First,, the Best I Ever had video and now this beat,, come on Kanye I think you can do better. But,, its not a bad song. For the most part,, it is definitely a come up for Drake and his video skills he reminded us that he can act and he did look really handsome. I am a proud hater of Maliah Michel's lower half,, I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I looked like that yall couldn't tell me shit!!
11.5.10
10.5.10
Beauty Epitomized
R.I.P Lena Horne
She was classic beauty at every age and a wonderful performer and role model to women of color and she will be greatly missed
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